I liked the other two answers (so far). It’s an interesting question. I agree that fringe (and non-fringe) cult leaders are very likely narcissists in that they
- Care more about themselves than others
- Have little to no empathy for the condition of others
- Demand that others agree with their views
- Demand utter loyalty
- Demand financial contribution
- Often demand sexual submission
- Espouse theories and stories that don’t match with evidence and “reality”
- Make it difficult to leave the flock
- Design strong “progression” systems with themselves at the center/top.
- Declare the world is wrong rather than acknowledging the prevailing and common view and behavior
- Resort to violence when/if necessary in their view
- Talk about their world versus the outside world
- Make the rules unilaterally
Once one is a member of a cult, it’s difficult both internally and externally to leave. One’s own belief systems (VABEs What are VABEs? ) will make it hard to leave—am I doing the wrong thing? Will I be damned forever? How can I throw away 30 years of my life? Externally, the cult makes it difficult as well. Representatives come around cajoling and encouraging even threatening to keep the members “in.”
